Consider this….. -They might have overslept because of a busy lifestyle and had to rush to get ready
-They may have traveled a great distance to the meetup, con, etc
-They may have had to get ready in a public bathroom -They may have had to get ready in a car (including makeup !)
-They might have forgotten an important piece
-Their financial status may differ from yours
-Something may have broken off their coordinate on the way
-THEIR TAOBAO/BODYLINE/MBOK ORDER MAY NOT HAVE ARRIVED IN TIME
-They might be experimenting with their own personal style (who knows it could lead to a new trend!)
-They may have done their makeup FLAWLESSLY then had an allergic reaction
-They might be a newbie (we all started somewhere! )
-They may not have felt like wearing lolita that day but felt pressured too because they wanted to attend the meet, event, con etc
-Their family may be strictly against lolita, causing them to struggle to get lolita pieces or be able to practice making outfits
-They might be sick or tired (everyone is allowed off days)
-They may have bought their dress, skirt, etc on impulse and haven’t quite figure out how to coord it yet.
-THEIR PERSONAL STYLE MAY DIFFER FROM YOURS AND THEY LIKE HOW THEY LOOK
Remember, you don’t know the circumstances of how someone got ready or the influences behind their coordinate ESPECIALLY if you are just seeing it online. I’m sure a lot of you have been through these or felt this way. Let’s all take the time to look at things from different perspectives before passing judgement. A message from your clumsy, forgetful and rushed lolita friend,
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